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PMS and PMDD Support
If the week or two before your period turns your mood upside down, you're not imagining it, and you don't have to just put up with it. Talk to qualified professionals, online or in person.
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Understanding PMS and PMDD
When Your Cycle Takes Over Your Mood
Many women notice changes in mood and body before their period. This is premenstrual syndrome (PMS), and for most it is uncomfortable but manageable.
For some, the changes are severe: intense irritability, hopelessness or anxiety that affect relationships, work and how you see yourself. This may be premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD), a recognised medical condition that responds well to treatment.
It's real
PMDD is a recognised condition, not an overreaction.
It's not your fault
It is linked to how your brain responds to normal hormone changes.
It's treatable
Therapy, lifestyle changes and medical options can all help.
Signs and symptoms
What PMS and PMDD Can Look Like
You don't need a diagnosis to ask for help. If any of these feel familiar, we're here.
Low or Hopeless
Feeling down, worthless or tearful, often out of nowhere.
Anxious and Tense
Feeling on edge, overwhelmed or sensitive to rejection.
Foggy and Tired
Trouble concentrating, low energy and wanting to withdraw.
Physical Changes
Bloating, breast tenderness, headaches, cravings and sleep changes.
Then It Lifts
Symptoms ease within a few days of your period starting.
These signs aren't a diagnosis. If you're thinking of harming yourself, call your local emergency number or Tele-MANAS (free, 24/7) at 14416 right away.
Telling them apart
PMS, PMDD and Related Patterns
The timing of your symptoms is the main clue. A professional can help you work out which fits.
PMS
Mild to moderate mood and body changes before your period that are manageable day to day.
PMDD
Severe mood symptoms in the week or two before your period that disrupt life, then ease after it starts.
Premenstrual worsening
Ongoing depression or anxiety that gets noticeably worse before your period.
Perimenopause
Mood changes in your 40s as cycles become irregular, which need their own assessment.
Your cycle and mood
How Mood Can Change Across a Month
Every cycle is different, but many women with PMS or PMDD notice a pattern like this.
1
Period starts
Within a few days, premenstrual symptoms usually ease.
2
The weeks after your period
Many women feel more like themselves, with steadier mood and energy.
3
Around ovulation
Some notice a brief dip in mood or a rise in anxiety.
4
The week or two before
Symptoms build: irritability, low mood, anxiety and physical changes.
5
A day or two before bleeding
Symptoms are often at their strongest, then the cycle begins again.
Tracking your cycle
Tracking Helps You Get the Right Help
PMDD is diagnosed by tracking symptoms every day for at least two cycles. This shows whether they follow your cycle, and helps your professional choose the right treatment.
You can use a period app, a notes app or a simple paper chart. Bring it to your appointment.
Note each day
- The day of your cycle, and when bleeding starts
- Mood: irritability, sadness, anxiety, mood swings (rate 0 to 3)
- Body: bloating, breast pain, headaches, sleep and appetite
- How much symptoms affected work, study or relationships
- Anything else that day, like stress, illness or poor sleep
Important
PMDD can bring thoughts of suicide or self-harm in the days before a period. Even if you know they'll pass, please take them seriously: call Tele-MANAS at 14416 or 112 right away, and tell a professional so you can plan for those days.
How we help
Support for Every Week of the Month
Treatment depends on how severe your symptoms are. Medication is only suggested if it's clinically appropriate, and always discussed with you first.
Consultation
An assessment to confirm what's happening. Some antidepressants work well for PMDD, sometimes taken only in the second half of your cycle.
Learn more →Therapy
CBT can help you manage difficult thoughts and feelings, and plan ahead for harder weeks.
Learn more →Counselling
Talk through the impact on your relationships, work and confidence.
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Relaxation and mindfulness tools for the days when symptoms build.
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Small Steps You Can Take
These can ease symptoms alongside professional care. They're not a substitute for it.
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Plan for the harder days
Once you know your pattern, lighten your schedule and avoid big decisions on those days.
2
Keep moving
Regular activity, even a daily walk, can ease mood and physical symptoms.
3
Eat regularly
Regular meals and less caffeine, alcohol and salt help some women feel steadier.
4
Prioritise sleep
Keep regular sleep times, especially in the week before your period.
5
Let people know
Telling a partner or family member about your pattern helps them understand and support you.
1
Book a consultation
Choose a psychiatrist or psychologist, online or in person. It only takes a few steps.
2
Meet your professional
Talk openly in a private session, with no pressure to have the right words.
3
Track and review
Your professional may ask you to track your symptoms for a couple of cycles.
4
Find what works
Try therapy, lifestyle changes or medication, and adjust together as you go.
Free self-check
Want to know where you stand?
There's no online test for PMDD, but you can see the pattern. Take the DASS-21 in the week before your period, then again in the week after it, and compare the two results. Bring both reports to your appointment.
21 questions · about 5 minutes · private, scored on your device
A self-check is a screen, not a diagnosis.
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FAQ
Frequently Asked
Questions
Both happen before your period. PMS is common and usually manageable. PMDD is much more severe: mood symptoms like rage, hopelessness or anxiety that disrupt your work, studies or relationships, then ease after your period starts.
By tracking your symptoms every day for at least two cycles. If severe mood symptoms appear before your period and ease soon after it starts, a professional may diagnose PMDD.
Yes. Certain antidepressants work well for many people with PMDD, sometimes taken only in the second half of the cycle. Hormonal options may also be discussed with your gynaecologist. Your professional will explain the choices.
It can help, especially to rule out other causes and to discuss hormonal treatments. With your consent, we can work alongside your gynaecologist.
Yes. PMDD is a real medical condition. Counselling can help you explain it to the people around you and plan together for the harder days.
No. In an emergency, call 112. In a mental health crisis, call Tele-MANAS at 14416 (free, 24/7).
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